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• Ep5 The Problem of Parental Coldness 父母冷漠的問題
• ***Ep5: November 4, 2025: The Problem of Parental Coldness | Presentation of WhatIsAGoodMother_Project Article #3, Rohner (2021): Interpersonal Acceptance-Rejection Theory (Part 1) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOd2Yrsyl70&t=212s
• (1) 4 types of parental rejection in Rohner’s (2021) interpersonal acceptance-rejection theory’s personality subtheory;
• (2) mental representations of self in rejected individuals and how parental rejection leads to defensive independence;
• (3) worldwide longitudinal studies and evidences that link parental rejection to psychological problems (internalizing and externalizing behaviors) and physiological problems (acute and chronic illnesses);
• (4) 60-80% of rejected individuals exhibit symptoms described in the personality subtheory.
• (1) Rohner (2021) 人際接納-拒絕理論之性格子理論中的 4 種父母拒絕類型；
• (2) 被拒絕個體的自我心理表徵以及父母拒絕如何導致防禦性獨立；
• (3) 全球縱向研究和證據發現心理問題（內化和外化行為）和生理問題（急性和慢性疾病）與童年遭受父母拒絕有關；
• (4) 60-80% 的被父母拒絕者表現出性格子理論中所描述的症狀。
• Contents: The Problem of Parental Coldness 父母冷漠的問題 (Rohner, 2021)
• 01:36 Questions 問題
• 02:46 Intro 引言
• 04:00 Research Purpose 研究目的
• 04:49 Processes 過程: Research Method 研究方法
• 07:36 –Personality Subtheory 人格副理論
• 08:33 –Warmth Dimension of Interpersonal Relationships 人際關係中的溫暖維度
• 11:05 –Four Types of Interpersonal Rejection 四種人際拒絕類型
• 11:58 –Interpersonal Acceptance (Warmth) 人際接納 (溫暖)
• 12:32 –Interpersonal Rejection (Coldness) 人際拒絕 (冷漠)
• 13:30 –Parental Hostility 父母的敵意
• 13:43 –Parental Indifference and Undifferentiated Rejection 父母的漠不關心和無差別拒絕
• 15:27 Key Findings 主要發現
• 15:39 –Universal Human Needs for Positive Response from Significant Others 人類需要從重要他人那裡獲得正面回應
• 16:40 –Child’s Emotionality Dependent on a Significant Other’s Emotionality 子女情緒取決於重要他人的情緒
• 17:39 –Parental Rejection Causing Impaired Self-Esteem and Self-Adequancy in the Child/Adult 父母的拒絕會導致兒童/成人的自尊心和自我效能感受損
• 19:03 –Parental Rejection Causing Negative Self-Perceptions in the Child/Adult 父母的拒絕會導致兒童/成人產生負面的自我認知
• 21:06 –Adults Having Experienced Parental Rejection, When Feeling Rejected by Significant Others, Feel Anxious and Insecure 經歷過父母拒絕的成年人，在被重要他人拒絕時，會感到焦慮和不安
• 21:35 –Parental Rejection and Child Dependence 父母的拒絕與子女的依賴
• 23:15 –Severe Parental Rejection and Child Defensive Independence 嚴重的父母拒絕與子女的防禦性獨立
• 24:13 –Traits of Those Growing up Being Rejected: Hypersensitivity & Distortion of Reality 被拒絕的子女成長過程中所具有的特質: 過度敏感與現實扭曲
• 26:32 Contributions 貢獻: Longitudinal Evidences 縱向證據
• 26:56 –Twin Study: Lack of Empathy in Rejected Children 雙胞胎研究: 被拒絕的子女缺乏同理心
• 27:41 –Longitudinal Studies: Internalizing Behaviors and Externalizing Behaviors in Rejected Children 縱貫研究: 被拒絕子女的內化行為與外化行為
• 28:29 –Longitudinal Studies: Acute and Chronic Health Issues in Rejected Adult Children 縱貫研究: 被拒絕的成年子女的急性和慢性健康問題
• 33:05 Unknown 未知

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Excerpt of S1Ep5 PowerPoint Slides (Ho, 2025)