Hoideology

Your “Parenting Style” (i.e., your emotional attitude) affects your child’s personality (Darling & Steinberg, 1993). How?
Two-Way Communication (the Authoritative style) breeds “openness in the child” to adapt to any parental practices bestowed to him or her.
In contrast, One-Way Communication (the Authoritarian style, such as Coercion) that devalues eye-level, equal communication, breeds “unwillingness in the child” to adapt to the Parental Practices demanded.
Watch S1Ep1 to view the details and theoretical model.
你的「教養風格」（即你的情緒態度）會影響你孩子的個性（Darling & Steinberg，1993）。如何？
雙向溝通（權威型）會培養「孩子開放的態度」，去適應父母賦予他或她的任何做法。
相較之下，單向溝通（獨裁風格，如強制）貶低了平視、平等溝通，會導致「孩子不願意」適應父母的做法。
觀看 S1Ep1 去查看詳細資訊和理論模型。

Dr. Katty P. Ho (Mar 25, 2026)

People often mistake “Parenting Practices” as the sole method of parenting. They ignore their “emotional attitude” (i.e., Parenting Style) that they use toward the particular child. Thus, they misuse Warmth (acceptance, affection, praises, etc.) and Coldness (withdrawal of acceptance, affection, praises, etc.) for the goal of manipulating the child’s emotions and behaviors (see S1Ep5).
Unhealthy parents even deliberately use Coldness to hurt their child’s feelings and stifle his or her emotional competence (as well as intelligences).
人們常誤以為「父母教養做法」是唯一的養育方法。他們忽略了對特定子女的「情感態度」（即教養風格）。因此，他們濫用溫暖（接受、喜愛、讚美等）和冷漠（撤回接受、喜愛、讚美等）來達到操縱子女的情緒和行為的目的（請參閱 S1Ep5）。
不健康的父母還會故意用冷漠來傷害孩子的感情並扼殺他或她的情緒能力（以及智力）。

Dr. Katty P. Ho (Mar 25, 2026)