• S1Ep8 COMMENTARY: Copers-Systems of Parental Rejection 評論: 父母拒絕的應對者與系統 (Parenting Lit. Rev. & App. S1Ep8)
• April 14, 2026: COMMENTARY: Copers and the Systems of Parental Rejection | WhatIsAGoodMother_Project ARTICLE #3 (Part 2) IMPLICATIONS & APPLICATIONS https://youtu.be/wMkZa4xbmNg
• In S1Ep8, we commentate:
• (1) How do we differentiate between Affective Copers and Instrumental Copers of Parental Rejection?
• (2) How does a person undergoing restructuring in, say, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, gain insights and understand how Parental Rejection shapes their actions in life?
• (3) What is Social Mask that has been developed as a long-term defense mechanism in the individual because of parental rejection in childhood?
• (4) What is the role of Empathy in Self-Differentiation?
• 在本 S1Ep8 中，我們解說:
• (1) 我們如何區分父母拒絕的 *情感型應對者* 和 *工具型應對者*？
• (2) 接受 *認知行為治療* 的人如何獲得洞察力並理解父母的拒絕如何影響他們的生活上的行為？
• (3) 因童年時父母的拒絕，而使一個人長期發展出的一種防禦機制，被稱為社交面具，這是什麼？
• (4) 同理心 在 *自我區分* 中的角色是什麼？
• ***Co-Host, Author, Producer/Video-editing, Executive Producer, Research Principal Investigator: Dr. Katty P. Ho, BA(Hons)Psy, MAPsy, MDiv, EdDEdPsy (https://hoideology.com/my-curriculum-…)
• ***Host, Undergraduate Research Apprentice: Genie Chu
• (recorded on January 17, 2026; published on April 14, 2026)
• Contents: COMMENTARY: Copers and the Systems of Parental Rejection 內容: 解說: 父母拒絕的應對者與系統
• 0:00 Highlights
• 0:50 Question 1: How do we differentiate between Affective Copers and Instrumental Copers of Parental Rejection? 問題1：我們如何區分父母拒絕的 情感型應對者 和 *工具型應對者*？
• 4:26 Question 2: How does a person undergoing restructuring in, say, cognitive behavioral therapy, gain insights and understand how parental rejection shapes their actions in life? 接受 認知行為治療 的人如何理解父母的拒絕如何影響他們的行為？
• 5:11 –Attribution 歸因
• 7:07 –SHU QI 1 (The Do Show, 2025, Nov 15): Parental Rejection 舒淇 1: 父母親的拒絕
• 12:26 –SHU QI: Affective Coper 舒淇：情感型應對者
• 12:30 –Narcissist Manager & External Locus of Control 自戀主管與外控型人格
• 15:54 Question 3: What is Social Mask that has been developed as a long-term defense mechanism in the individual because of parental rejection in childhood? 因童年父母拒絕，長期發展出防禦機制，社交面具是什麼？
• 16:14 –SHU QI 2: Social Masking 舒淇 2: 社交面具
• 16:43 –Parents blaming the kid for everything: leading to the child’s negative self-image, and thru the mechanism of social masking, developing narcissistic behaviors (personality disorder) 父母把所有事情都怪在孩子身上：導致孩子產生負面的自我形象，並透過社交面具，發展出自戀 (人格障礙)
• 19:21 –Hypersensitivity to Criticism and Distortion of Reality (narcissistic traits) 對批評的高度敏感與現實扭曲 (自戀特徵)
• 20:17 Question 4: What is the role of Empathy in Self-Differentiation? 同理心在 自我區分 中的角色是什麼？
• 20:18 –Inborn empathic concern 天生的同理關懷
• 22:06 –SHU QI 3: Affective Coper who has high levels of Self-Differentiation and Empathic Concern 舒淇 3: 高 自我區分 與 同理關懷 的情感型應對者
• 23:30 –Self-Empathy & Empathy for Others 自我同理與對他人的同理心
• 24:49–SHU QI 4: example of an Affective Coper who has high levels of Self-Determination & Internal Locus of Control 舒淇 4: 高 自我決定 與 內控型人格 的情感應對者
• 26:19 –Affective Copers (High in Self-Empathy and Empathy for Others) Vs. Narcissisms (Lack of Accurate Attribution; High Denial and Distortion of Reality, and Generalization or Overgeneralization of Feelings) 情感型應對者（高自我同理與對他人的同理）與自戀者（缺乏準確歸因；高否認與現實扭曲，情感的概括或過度概括）
• 28:23 –Affective Copers: High Self-Determination (active anger management) 情感應對者: 高自我決定（積極的憤怒管理）
• 29:36 –SHU QI 5: Unlike such affective copers as SHU QI, NARCISSISTS have INABILITY to show affective empathy toward others and INABILITY to do Self-Reflection 舒淇 5: 與情感應對者不同，自戀者 無法 對他人表現情感共鳴，也 無法 進行自我反思
• 33:42 –SHU QI 6: Helping people understand Self-Empathy & Empathy for Others 舒淇 6: 幫助人們理解自我同理和對他人的同理
• 34:52 End credits; Introducing upcoming SEASON 2 介紹第2季

Copyright @ 2026 Dr. Katty Ho at Hoideology.com | To cite this material, use this: Chu, G., & Ho, K. P. (2026, April 14). COMMENTARY: Copers & the Systems of Parental Rejection | WhatIsAGoodMother_Project Article #3, Rohner (2021), Part 2, implications & applications (Parenting Literature Review & Applications, Season 1, Episode 8). [YouTube video]. From Hoideology.com. https://youtu.be/C1X5XC6m1ds